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Sidechick Culture

What makes someone take the backseat as a side chick? I have a few theories on sidechick culture. I think there are some women out there that just want what someone else has. They can’t go out and find their own man. They see what someone else has and they want it. Then there are the women that don’t want a relationship, so being in a relationship with a man who is married or in a serious relationship saves them from having to commit. They may do it subconsciously or knowingly do it. But why are we as women making this okay? It’s actually pretty disturbing the amount of women that are just fine with taking a back seat to another woman. I tried it and it literally drove me insane. Maybe I’m just old fashioned in that sense. That is probably why I just stay single because I do not want to deal with the bullshit. It is an epidemic! Here’s the tea…

When I say I tried it to be a sidechick I count the time as dating Shwolf as that time. If you’re dating a married man you are most definitely a ‘sidechick’ even if you’re living together. I tried not to let it bother me, but the fact there was another woman blowing up his phone for a divorce every other month and then disappearing for awhile kind of got a little old. It bothered me. So naturally I do not understand how women can just be okay with this. This man could potentially have kids and you’re just there on the outside looking in. What makes someone okay with this? Is this a person who has just given up on men? Like, fuck it! Is this a person who is too insecure to go and find their own man that they’d rather have someone else’s? If I’m the wife or the girlfriend on the other end I’m saying BYE! to that man unless he’s a millionaire with a 10 inch dong– NO man is worth all those problems! LOL! If I could get inside the head of a sidechick that takes pride in herself I’d spill all the answers, but unfortunately I’m a trash ass ho with a conscience. Spill the tea, proud sidechicks? What’s your deal? #nowthatsthefuckingtea Follow on insta: @keepingitrealwithkash #datingculturesucks

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