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Is Web Cam Porn Cheating?

Let’s not be naïve. Everyone has watched porn in their lifetime. How much or how little depends on the person. Maybe you’re a lifetime Brazzers subscriber or maybe you just like to rub one out to a DP three way here and there. Whatever your cerebral poison may be, no judgements here. But when does porn cross the line and become a problem? I’m sure most of you are familiar with live web cam porn. Is this new age personalized porn cheating? Here’s the tea…

I dated a man for about three years that was my best friend. We had a great relationship, never really fought. We went on vacations, sporting events, concerts you name it we were going. He was a great person, but one area we were not compatible was sexually. We would go weeks without sex and I would be so confused. I am a passionate Scorpio and I know I don’t suck in bed. I don’t run around fucking everything, but if I’m in a relationship I plan on getting it at least twice a week. Mmmkay? So weeks would go by and I would call my girlfriends and bitch, like “what the fuck is wrong with this guy. Maybe he’s gay! I have no idea everything else is great.” It hurt me– until one day I decided to get my Detective Olivia Benson on and go through his phone and computer. He was cheating on me. I just knew it! Went through the phone- nothing. Went through the computer, checked the history—Boom. There it was; MY FREE CAMS! “This mother fucker.” I said to myself, mainly because I knew exactly what it was because I tried to work on the site myself! LOL! (That’s a whole other blog entry) My free cams is personalized web cam porn. You can literally sit with a woman a thousand miles away and live chat to get your rocks off. After this shocking revelation I told myself it’s okay. It’s just porn (POSITIVE AVOIDANCE), all men watch porn. RIGHT?! Then after another sexless week and not saying anything about my discovery I came to the conclusion that, NO! It’s not okay. Watching web cams is not okay if you’re in a relationship and using that as your sexual pleasure rather than being intimate with your partner. One day I snapped and confronted him. He apologized, but dismissed it because he didn’t feel it was cheating. “I don’t know.. I’m a dude.” was his defense. I think he felt really bad that it hurt me, but not bad enough to stop. LOL! It took me getting fed up and going outside the relationship to meet my needs for him to realize how big of an issue it was. By that time I was so frustrated that it pushed me that far it was pointless. I felt so bad about what I did, but I justified it with what he did to me which was wrong. I should have just walked away before I cheated and let him astroglide himself to death. Instead I stayed, met someone else, developed feelings for the other person and completely fucked my head up because I still loved “DJ Diddles”. So there I was in a relationship with– technically my best “porn loving” friend and seeing someone else. Boom! Now I’m the fucking cowardly dick. See how that works? I did nothing but confuse the fuck out of myself. But for long term use I proved the theory that a woman will only cheat if her needs are not met. Unlike men who will hump anything just because it’s Wednesday. (Agree or disagree?) With that said I absolutely think a man viewing personalized internet porn is cheating if it is taking away sexually from a man’s relationship. If he is still intimate with his woman it’s still cheating…. I’m sorry. Be like a normal guy and watch some Skinamax or pornhub! BUSTY COED’S!…. UGH! Now! What do you think?! I am dying to know!! Thoughts? Opinions? Email me if you’re going through something similar! LIKE! SHARE! FOLLOW! #nowthatsthefuckingtea

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5 thoughts on “Is Web Cam Porn Cheating?

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  1. The connection in a relationship, whether it be physical, emotional, spiritual or mental, is sacred. To say that watching porn is not cheating, is to say that our thoughts and feelings in a relationship have no affect on how we love each other. That we are only physical with our love. This couldn’t be further from the truth. Our deepest love and compassion comes from the marriage of our thoughts and our heart/feelings. This energy created from this union is what makes our connection to each other so sacred. Any man or woman, who doesn’t understand this is usually unbalanced and disconnected from what love really is, and not a person anyone should ever be in a committed relationship with.

    1. So you agree then. It is cheating.. ?

      1. Paul Pano|

        Absolutely it’s cheating.

  2. You are killing it!

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